How to Avoid Power Struggles and Actually Get Along

Learning how to avoid power struggles starts with the realization that you don't actually have to "win" an argument to be heard. We've all been there—that moment where your chest tightens, your voice gets a little sharper, and suddenly, it's not even about the original problem anymore. It's about who's in charge. Whether it's with a partner, a boss, or a stubborn toddler, these tugs-of-war are draining. They eat up your energy and usually leave everyone involved feeling pretty miserable. ...

May 23, 2026 · 7 min · Dennie Luzelva